Book Review: Raising an Original

The word original can branch off into a few slightly different meanings.  When something has become a template, to base all others off of, it has become and "original" work.  A person who is apparently eccentric or unique they are often referred to as "original".  Something that is created with time consuming perfection to the tiniest of details by its artist is an "original" work of art.  Our children are all these things and more.  Created out of the template of humanity God originally designed, they are uniquely woven with personality, temperaments, and talents with greatest of care by the One who knew them before entering their mother's womb.  Our kids our originals- so why do we try to fit them in the squarely small box society expects all to fit into?  We are not in the business of raising cookie cutter kids- but rather embracing the unique and original people God has entrusted us to grow into adulthood and steward faithfully.

Julie Lyles Carr is a homeschooling, Christian mom of 8 Originals herself.  Her candid examples of life in raising each of her unique people were part of what made her book Raising an Original so impactful.  This transformational parenting book has won a place in one of the top ones I will not recommend to fellow parents.  This is not a manual of how to 'get your kids to behave' or 'chore checklists that work', or even a 'discipline that matters' type handbook.  It is getting to the heart of who God created each original person to be and how to encourage them to embrace, use, and adapt to the unique strands God has woven into their lives.

One of the most profound sections for me was the section on parenting 'successful' children.  While our children are a long way off from college and career choices (but it will happen in a blink, I know), it is powerful and encouraging to see how the world's definitions of success are not necessarily in line with God's, nor do they fit the way our children have been woven to be success in their Creator's eyes.

The must read section I will come back to again and again is the ROPES assessment.  A wonderful took mimicking the DiSC survey to help understand personality temperaments, strengths, and weaknesses of each Original.  Getting a glimpse of understanding into what makes my children tick, enthusiastic, or drained of life will help me parent them better.  It has provided valuable insight into the children whose personalities are very different than my own and therefore require stewardship that conflicts with my natural instincts.

This book is a must have for parenting shelves.  New parents may find it overwhelming, but those who are in the midst of the elementary years will find incredible connections and value.  It will also never be too late to get your hands on this book and make an impact in how you relate to your own original.

*I received a copy of this book for free in return for my unbiased and honest review.

Book Review: Greater than Gold

I love the Olympics.  Every four (well two I guess) years the best athletes around the world participate in high level competition.  The human interest stories behind the scenes and away from the medal stand can be equally as captivating.  I remember vividly David Boudia winning the historic gold medal in platform diving in London, but knew little of his story.  After seeing his testimony alongside his synchro partner, Steele Johnson, and their proclamation that their identity is in Christ I became intrigued.  Therefore, when given the opportunity to read his autobiography shortly after the Rio Olympics (where he won bronze individually and silver in synchro) I was thrilled.

Greater Than Gold is a story of a young man searching for greatness.  He seeks it in all the right places- athletics, fame, notoriety, success, gold medals, endorsements.  Blessed with physical talent and mental toughness, Boudia ends up near the top of his sport yet feels completely empty and broken.  In his youth, immediate gratification brought addictions and pleasures in drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, and parties.    Despite a religious upbringing with a family of high expectations, Boudia had mastered looking good when it counted.  But despite all the fame he accomplished, Boudia reached a physical, emotional, and spiritual breaking point in September 2009 when he was shepherded by his coach and coach's wife at Purdue.  Accepting Christ transformed Boudia's heart, mind, body, and approach to success.  He truly was a new creation.  Life began to have purpose and meaning beyond medals and accolades.  It also allowed him a fresh approach to his sport perhaps allowing him to finally break free of his own enemy (himself) and win Gold in the London Olympics.  What perhaps is even more impressive is his eagerness to continue to honor Christ after things went well and seek help before it was even needed.

This book is an easy read but fantastic in content.  Scripture runs abound as Boudia shares his heart with the world.  He is honest, genuine, and a gentle storyteller. I found myself wishing to have coffee with him and his wife and share life together.  His story is one of finding purpose, getting rid of sin and idols created in life, and finding ways to shine God's light wherever you are placed.  

I highly recommend this book to anyone.  I could even see teens enjoying this story immensely.

*I received this book for free as part of booklook blogger program in exchange for my unbiased review.

Book Review: The Princess Twins and the Birthday Party

It doesn't get more perfect for a little girl than a book about princesses and birthdays.  My girls love anything princess- the dresses, the crowns and they love birthday parties.  Therefore, I jumped at the chance to receive and review The Princess Twins and the Birthday Party the newest in the series by Mona Hodgson.  

Abby and Emma are twin sisters and princesses.  The book follows their birthday as they wake up, get ready in their princess finery, enjoy a breakfast with their parents, and then have friends over for a party.  The King tells the girls how thankful he is that not only are his girls beautiful on the outside but also on the inside because they are kind and loving to others.  During then party when one of the guests feels left out because her dress is too plain, the reader gets to see this kindness in action as Emma then proceeds to share her crown with her friend.  

Based on Ephesians 4:32, this story shows little girls how to actively be kind and compassionate to one another.  I also loved how showing while birthdays are a fun event- it does not have to be a selfish endeavor.  Birthday parties can still be an opportunity to show kindness to others even though the day celebrates you. The beautiful illustrations and easy level 1 reader make this book perfect for little girls ages 5-8.  

*I received a free copy of the book in exchange for my unbiased review.

Book Review: Glimmer Girls- A Dolphin Wish

The next book in a series by Natalie Grant- The Glimmer Girls takes the reader to San Diego and an adventure park mystery with the three sisters Mia, Maddie, and Lulu.  My daughter loved the first book which took place in Paris and so she was thrilled with the opportunity to continue the story of the three sisters.  Combining love of sisters (she has three of her own!), mysteries, and animals this was a home run novel for my 9 year old!  Grant has infused tales and experiences I imagine from her own journey as a singer and mother to make for a relatable tale.  I appreciate the aspects of living a life of faith in Christ that are exampled throughout the story.  While the Glimmer sisters don't always get a long, it is in a very realistic and appropriate way and always has a good lesson to learn and how to solve conflicts with people you love.  Grant has developed wonderful characters, fun storylines, and faith filled fun in her Glimmer Series books.  I highly recommend this second book- A Dolphin Wish for your pre-teen and young teen daughters!

*Thanks to booklook blogger for the free copy for my unbiased review!

Book Review: Glimmer Girls London Art Chase

  A for Adorable!  This is the first word that came to mind while reading the new and highly anticipated novel from recording artist Natalie Grant.  The Glimmer Girls series begins with London Art Chase.  Three sisters set off on a mystery adventure during their travels with their recording artist mom and nanny.  In this book the girls are in London and experiencing the Art Museum when a painting is stolen and they decide to take it into their own hands to catch the thief.

I loved that this series has a loving family at the center of it (with its normal dynamics).  I have four daughters of my own, so my oldest girl loved relating to the sisters and their interactions.  She really connected and almost felt like she was a part of the family!

Perhaps the best part about this book is the seamless weaving of history, culture, countries, character traits, and faith into the story.  I love that while my daughter delved into a fun mystery she was getting pieces of London culture and scenery.  We introduced artists like Renior and discussed consequences even when we are acting in righteous anger.  A fun loving adventure is made more impactful with these little lesson woven in.

My 9 year old daughter throughly enjoyed the book.  She loves mysteries and this one was just the right mix of suspense and fun without being scary.  She also liked the periodic pictures in the chapters.

She and I both cannot wait to get our hands on the next one!  Well done Natalie Grant and ZonderKidz!

*I received this book in exchange for my unbiased review.

Book Review: Undaunted Hope

I had the opportunity to read another novel from one of the foremost historical fiction and romance authors of today- Jody Hedlund.  I have enjoyed two of her previous novels immensely and the newest in the Beacon of Hope series does not disappoint.  Undaunted Hope continues the story of Tessa Taylor- a young woman searching for hope, answers, and purpose.  Her strength and sass not always welcome in the era of the mid-end 1800's are what will help her survive the harsh winters of northern Michigan in a town full of miners.  Undeterred by the challenge of being an unwanted woman teacher- she forges ahead with tenacity- without realizing she would change almost as much as she changes her students and fellow townsman.  

The highlights of Hedlund's writing are the incredible storytelling, deep characterization, and commitment to remain true to the setting and real life people of the era.  Her deep research in lighthouse life and rural school teachers allow the reader to be fully enveloped in the unfolding saga.  I find Hedlund's writing to be fresh and unique compared to many of the stalwarts that have flooded the Christian romance market for years.

Undaunted Hope encourages you through a lovely story to not let your own misconceptions hold you back from personal growth and to not let fear stand in the way of your future.

I had not yet read the first two books in the series and did not feel lost or confused, but knowing the depth and quality of book 3 I am now eager to check out the earlier books in the Beacons of Hope series.

Another novel that doesn't disappoint!  Thanks to Bethany House for the free copy of the book in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review: Strong and Kind

I'll admit- I know very little about Duck Dynasty and the entire commander family.  I've watched and enjoyed a few episodes and have appreciate the news clips I've seen of the Robertson family standing up for their family, faith, and freedoms.  However, I had the opportunity to read and review Korie Robertson's newest book Strong and Kind.  The reason I chose to receive this book for free for review was the subtitle; Other important Character Traits Your Child Needs to Succeed.  It is my and my husband's desire to instill long lasting, Godly based characteristics in our children.  We desire for them to obey, love, and relate in a way that comes from deep within, from a Holy source, not just out of a need to please others or to stay out of trouble.

I'm pleased to say I throughly enjoyed this atypical parenting book.  What a refreshing take on parenting!  Instead of a psychological or medical expert explaining things through the lens of generalities, I felt as thought I was sitting in the coffee shop with a true friend while she shared stories of success and failure in her own parenting journey.  I loved how Korie never approached her chapters with a "we did it best" or "we are perfect" mentality.  Her stories along with quips from husband Willie are fully of honesty, humor, and Biblical truth.  The first half of the book focuses on possible character traits that parents may want to focus on to instill in their children.  The Robertson's have focused on two- Strong and Kind- to filter decision making and parenting all of their children and encourage others to do the same.  I appreciate they also mention how each family will look, sound, and feel different but it all comes from the same source and motivation of raising God-fearing, productive adults.

The second half of book encourages parents to be active and intentional as they strive to implement character building in their children.  I found this section to not be a daunting list of do's and don'ts to be the best parent I can be, but an encouraging word from a friend who has travelled much of the path  of parenting before me.  

Strong and Kind is full of wisdom, helpful stories, and most importantly it is all backed up with Biblical truths.  Korie Roberston is the sweet small group member, neighbor, or Starbucks friend you dreamed of having.  Her writing style (compliments also with her co-writer and mother Chrys Howard) is friendly and inviting without airs or frivolity.  I highly recommend this book to any parent at any stage and encourage parents to read together and not just leave it on the nightstand- but rather grab a paper or laptop and begin formulating ideas and action plans to establish your own family's legacy.

*I received a free copy of this book as part of BookLookBloggers in exchange for my unbiased review